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JanC1955]
Hardly a moot point in matters of the heart. I suspect SZ filed for divorce in large part because of blondie or whoever else is in the picture. Possibly had he (GZ) not dicked around with other women, the situation would not have occurred, either. The best way to drum up a confrontation with the wife you dumped for someone else is to parade the someone else around the wife. You don't engender loyalty in someone by dumping her for another woman. This ain't rocket science.
I don't know why GZ went outside his marriage, but it would appear he did. Now he is dealing with the consequences, imo. He should've kept it zipped, filed for divorce himself, and moved out of Shellie's father's home immediately. The route he took instead is just adding to everyone's heartache.
And that brings us all back to the point of who had the allotted time scheduled to be there, and was SZ supposed to be there or not? I believe that the released texts show that GZ avoided the house for most of his allotted day to avoid such a situation.
Saying that had he not dicked around with other women the situation would not have occurred is a lot like saying "had he not gotten out of the car".
I am not condoning cheating, but I am stating that implying a direct causal relationship between that and the actions that occurred is at best slightly misleading. My statement about dicking around in the house for the afternoon was at least based in the same immediate timeframe as the incident and was directly involved in the matter. (no SZ present if not her allotted time and there is no issue)
I am not trying to pick a fight with you. I respect your views and can see where you are speaking from, I understand the emotional side as well. But I cannot completely wash SZ hands of this matter as some seem to be able to.