Ack! Closing tabs and found this, unposted. Sorry, wasn't ignoring you, LittleLaughter. I wouldn't dare!

LittleLaughter wrote:
It's all just so pathetic to me. Sure, most divorces are not neat & tidy and most involve both parties doing things they never would have thought they'd reduce themselves to.
My problem with all of this is not the shortsightedness of the arguing they did, the videoing, even the crassness of having a girlfriend (possibly). Stupid & immature to be sure. My problem is that Shellie went to the same media that systematically helped to destroy her & George. A media that is hell bent on aiding those in power to take away our constitutional rights to defend ourselves & to own a gun. I have no sympathy for anyone who would aid them in that regard.
BBM - Amen. So very true. Even those who know better can't seem to help themselves though. I've known lawyers who specialize in dissolutions be just as nutty as their nuttiest client. In fact, a lot of divorce lawyers won't take a case against another lawyer because it won't end. I mean ten years and counting, one case I know of where the client divorced their lawyer spouse.
And it's the lawyer-party keeping it going, going through several attorneys over the years and pro se when no one will touch the toxic case.
I'm a big 2nd amendment person myself. And I abhor the media's attempts to infringe on it. But I don't know that SZ agrees with me. GZ seems to, given that he carries, but he also campaigned for President Obama, so who knows?
LittleLaughter wrote:
I disagree, respectfully!

That George's behavior contributed to the whole. He is not the reason it was blown into a media circus complete with the most ridiculous press conference in history. All of that was Shellie's doing. It would be rare in a messy divorce for one party to be completely innocent, but this is not the issue. Their divorce isn't even the issue. What was already contemptuous at best, was made into public fodder, and Shellie had every expectation of what would result from her first appearance in an interview with the book peddler and her 911 call on Monday. She knew it wouldn't be just another domestic violence call from the jones' next door. This involved George Zimmerman and she knew the implications.
No need for that "respectfully disagree" stuff with me. I appreciate an intelligent, thoughtful challenge to my posts. It makes me think, and weigh things to have a better understanding of them.
If SZ was as upset, frightened, and distraught as it seemed, or as was claimed, she may not have thought of the implications of calling LE. I'm not sure anyone thinks beyond "Make it stop" in that kind of moment. And it's not her doing that anything related to either of them is national news - that's the scheme team's doing, along with the rest of the Trayborg™.
She shouldn't have gone to the media. But from what I saw, she didn't trash him. So it wasn't all vindictive. And I just can't manage to isolate any action by either and look at it in a vacuum. In her mind, I'm sure, she has been used cruelly by GZ, then tossed away like yesterday's trash as soon as he was acquitted, without even telling her she was garbage to him. She was cheated on, ignored, etc. etc. I'm not saying that's what happened, I'm saying that's how she feels.
What she did is pretty tame compared to how I may react if ever in a similar circumstance. Maturity and decorum will go right out the window if my darling, near-perfect hubby abandons me with two texts over a month saying, "I'm fine", and he's out with my replacement, or not even replacement, thing of the day. And in our case, it wouldn't be national news! Well, until
after he pulled that nonsense, then maybe... (joking)
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