JanC1955 wrote:
Hi liesel,
I read what you read about who the blonde is (GZ's ex-fiance). I also read something yesterday that said Shellie learned George had resumed (my word) his illicit (my word) relationship after his acquittal, which is why she filed for divorce ... all of which led me to think perhaps the ex was the problem between the 2 that caused SZ to move out the night before the GZ/TM encounter.
All of this is, of course, no more than a combination of media sources and me trying to make sense of the whole thing.
A lot of folks are being very hard on Shellie, and while I think she's used extremely poor judgment in taking this public and spending one second in the presence of the media that has crucified them for a year and a half, I'm not ready to believe she's executing some grand master plan against GZ that has been in the making for months. I suspect GZ made her mad enough to move out back in February 2012, and made her mad enough again recently to file for divorce. I think she's mad. And she's lashing out in disastrous ways. But I'm not ready to assume she's nothing more than a manipulative gold-digging drama queen, which seems to be the way many are leaning.
I can't explain what the 911 call(s) were about yesterday or why she presumably showed up unannounced during "George's time" at the house -- I haven't sorted that one out yet in terms of what her motivations might have been. But something tells me it originated out of more of the same -- she's very angry and vindictive at the moment.
Maybe they were keeping score on who was supporting who "enough" in their relationship. She felt she had been supportive since the shooting (and there's certainly some evidence of that), she doesn't feel he returned the favor, and to add insult to injury, here comes blondie.
My 2 cents. I won't wait for change, lol.
*applause*
As we all know, we cannot believe media reports about anything, particularly anything related to GZ. Most of us are old enough to know better than to get into anyone's marriage. Given all of that, I doubt I'll ever feel comfortable taking sides in this divorce.
All of that being said, it is difficult for me to wrap my mind around decent, kind people seeming to be ok with GZ cheating on SZ, leaving her for another woman, an old flame at that. This to me is reprehensible. However, it doesn't excuse the things SZ has done.
I agree that she's likely lashing out. I can't even grasp how
hurt and humiliated she must feel. Going through this under normal circumstances must feel pretty horrific, but having it play out on the national news must add a staggering amount to the pain she's going through.
All of this is on top of all the two of them have suffered over the last 16+ months. SZ has been the subject of malicious taunts, insults, and death threats from the public at large. Yet she stayed and supported GZ. And then he takes up with another woman. And then he brings his other woman to SZ's parent's house. When GZ realized SZ was there, imo, he should have gotten his other woman out of there. This was just cruel, rubbing her nose in his infidelity, imo.
Again, I'm not excusing what SZ has done. If GZ hadn't already left her for another woman, imo, he'd be justified in leaving her over going to the press under these circumstances. That was a huge betrayal. But at 26 years old, after his huge betrayal of her, I can't hate her for it, kwim?
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