I think perhaps I have read an eye opening article which has given me some insight into why there is such emotion invested into the Oscar Pistosius case and why so many people can’t separate opinion from evidence. I have come across a glimpse into why it is so important for so many people that the “Blade Runner” fit their version of that horrific AM regardless of what the evidence of the case may be.
I understand a person passionately wanting justice for Reeva.I agree with wanting justice to prevail, always. But what does that objectively mean? Isn’t it dependent on what the actual events of that AM were? Not, "what if, it seems to me, and the only conclusion I can draw". Those subjective and often myopic opinions are not enough to draw justice from. I did not until now, understand why some people seem to want what they determine to be justice, rather than objective justice. You know the old “justice is blind” and all.
It is horrific and undeniable that women are killed by their lovers, boyfriends and husbands in terrible domestic violence incidences. It is also undeniable that people are killed accidentally by their loved ones. Each event holds it’s own particular horror, one is certainly far worse than the other and deserving of a more punitive justice.
Oscar is the only living person who knows exactly what happened that AM.And I would suppose that his recollections not precise given the extreme emotions and the terrible fact that he killed Reeva, willfully or not. His story in my mind is not inconsistent with the evidence. So I have been perplexed by the endless opinions and blogs that have been set forth by so many people, that condemn Oscar and have closed their minds to any further investigation of the evidence. Or even different points from which to view the evidence that has been presented.
Than I read some of Mike Luicia’s article. In all honesty I could not get through all of it but I do believe that I got the general gist. It is summed up here in Mike’s own words
No matter what, though, we always come back to the same things, the shock and surprise we feel because we got conned or conned ourselves into thinking we really know these people because we see what they do and admire what they do and thrill to what they do.And once again confuse sports heroes with real heroes.
Somehow we kid ourselves into thinking we know the celebrities and immortals of sports because of the bones they throw us, when they pull back the curtain and let us into their world on Twitter. Fans actually imagine a personal relationship, even as more and more their sports heroes are nothing more than products of their handlers, or the crisis managers they hire when they get into trouble.
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http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/more- ... z35VAh6oG5Wait, what? I was not conned by Oscar, I knew very little of him other than he was a great advocate for the disabled and he was the first double amputee to compete in the Olympics. I have never thought that “celebrity” establishes any bar for moral character. Do people really believe that they have a personal connection with celebrities ? That they know the moral fiber of those that they have elevated in their own minds to "friend" and or even "moral beacon" ? It seems as if people feel a personal betrayal because Oscar is no longer in their mind who they created him to be. I simply have a different world view or perception of "celebrity" and their place in my life. Celebrities do not know I exist and I have no delusion that a single one of them is my "friend" or that I "know them." They are not my heroes.
People feel a “personal relationship” has been established because of a twitter account? This is bizarre to me but it does explain why a discussion about the evidence of the Oscar Pistorius case is always trumped by the emotion attached to the case, it seems that people feel personally betrayed by Oscar Pistorius.
Only one person was betrayed by Oscar, in my opinion that betrayal was not one of malice but of a horrific mistake and rash behavior due to abject fear. Reeva's family and friends certainly have a justifiable grievance against Oscar, for them it is personal. And the world at large should grieve the loss of any life, including Reeva. Reeva's death is horrible, she should be alive today, sun on her face, laughter in her eyes. She is not, and even justice can do that which we would all like, return her to life.
But even condemnation of Oscar is not necessarily justice for Reeva. It is not an indisputable fact that Oscar with malice shot Reeva in cold blood. Let the trial continue and Judge Masipa give her verdict.
People who feel personally betrayed or "conned" by Oscar need to examine what their connection with the celebrities "in" their lives really is, as the "relationship" is nothing more than a one sided admiring (or not) of a persona, there is nothing personal about it.
It is a very strange world in which we live.